After learning of twins separation, Moroha shows a certain degree of sympathy towards Towa, such as chastising Setsuna for attacking her sister, and is willing to help Towa in her quest to find the Dream Butterfly.
Sōta is her maternal uncle. He was surprised from his mother that Moroha was Kagome's daughter as he lets her and Towa's twin sister to stay. After she went shopping, Sōta saw the backpack that reminds him of his sister until he was shocked by the receipts as she returned his credit card.
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So unfortunately my mother died a couple weeks ago. I am still in shock and in the process of grieving. My aunt is someone my siblings and I all love and have a great relationship with. I brought up to my siblings about how they felt having someone whom looks exactly like my mother at her funeral and we agreed we'd feel uncomfortable having her there. So we all decided to tell her if she could possibly not come to her funeral. While she was obviously disappointed she understood our decision. This all happened Friday and on Saturday morning I get a few missed calls from my Uncles and Grandmother saying how dare we tell our Aunt to not come to my mother's funeral and that we should be disgusted with ourselves. Obviously she's my mother's sister and twin and is a a part of my family, but my sisters and I already feel kind of distraught at the thought of her being there since she looks exactly like my mother. We all feel really guilty about this whole thing but can't help but be honest. So AITA for this or not?
But WOW. Yes YTA. You're stripping your aunt from her right to grieve her TWIN SISTER?? Just because you guys don't want to see her face because she looks like your mom? That's incredibly selfish and you guys should be ashamed of yourselves. I can empathize with why you feel that way..but it's just wrong to tell a woman she cannot go to her own sisters funeral for no other reason than how she looks.
I am so sorry for your loss, OP, and imagine that it will be difficult to see mom's identical twin, but think of how it must be to lose and identical twin? Someone you have known since before you were born. Someone who has had your face your whole life. Aunt needs this funeral as much as you do. You need to let her come.
Exactly, in youth, my grandfather looked nothing like his younger brother, who we didn't see much growing up, but at my grandfathers funeral, it was like his twin was in the room for us. Sure, it was painful (though years of ill health and a long life made it slightly less sad) to see a walking reminder, but it was also strangely comforting. YTA OP for denying a twin, someone who knew and loved your mum far longer than you and literally shares 100% of her dna, the chance to say goodbye. Please reconsider.
op, you've suffered a great loss and i am so sorry for that, but YTA BIG TIME in this situation. grief is a hell of a drug, but you (and your siblings too) have to find it in yourself to snap out of it long enough to apologize. you're ALL hurting. the point of a funeral is to support each other through that hurt. denying someone, ESPECIALLY a twin even that much isn't just selfish, it's crueler than anything i can imagine you doing right now.
I want to second this. I am a twin and if my brother died i would be devistated. Twins have a bond that normal siblings just dont have. Your a dick for trying to prevent your aunt from going to the funeral.
Sorry for the loss, that must be incredibly hard. The OP mentioned they loved the Aunt and had a "great relationship". From what I know about twins, granted I'm no expert, but have met twins in my life and have some experience, even the most identical of twins can be told apart once you get to know them. You not only can see some slight physical differences after a while, but their personalities, their likes and dislikes, their unique quirks and behaviours, all can be told apart once you get to know them. So even though they look the same to most people, you would think this family knew each woman enough to know the difference, and appreciate that they were separate, unique people. I can't imagine how hurt the Aunt must feel at not being able to go and grieve her twin sister with the rest of the family. (Although this was "a couple of weeks ago", and I thought funerals were not allowed right now due to the virus).Anyway, definitely the AH.
Its heartless. Totally heartless. They should definitely Italy be ashamed and you are absolutely right with disgusted. I'm disgusted with this post. I can't imagine how I would feel if my nephews told me I couldn't come to my sisters funeral? Not to mention how I would feel if she was told not to come to mine. She's not even my twin, but we certainly look a lot a like and we do have the same voice.
I'm very sorry for your loss. But, you have to remember that this is your mother's sister, she has known you mother her whole life, they literrally shared a womb. How would you feel if you were in her shoes and suddenly you're being told you can't say goodbye to your sibling because your presence would make other people distraught?
My moms friends sister passed and her daughter would call my moms friend just to listen to her talk because she sounded so much like her deceased mom. I would think they would find comfort in their moms identical twin.
Yeah, I get the feeling that the aunt being "okay" with the decision as described in the post was more of her trying to keep the peace at a very stressful time/being too shocked to argue. No way is the aunt okay with not being allowed at her twin sister's funeral. I'm so sorry for your loss, OP, but YTA
The Aunt has to be so extremely hurt. Not only has she lost her twin sister, she must feel like her nieces and nephews hate her for her looks - something she can't even influence. That poor woman. She is very strong for not wanting to fight and keep the piece.
Exactly. Not only does the aunt not get to say goodbye to her twin sister, but she doesn't get to comfort or be comforted by her own mother and other siblings at a time of profound grief and loss.
Just for the record... As an identical twin, it doesn't work that way. I don't see my sister in the mirror or pictures. I see myself. But it still would be beyond awful if someone barred me from her funeral for the crime of looking like her.
As an identical twin there have definitely been times where I'll walk past a mirror or dark window and see what I thought was my sister out of the corner of my eye, but was actually just my reflection.
YTA. Are you planning to never see your aunt again for the rest of her life because she reminds you of your mother? She was your mother's twin, she loved your mother way before you did and excluding her from the funeral is unbelievably selfish.
Massive YTA, It is a very difficult time for you and your siblings Im sure, but for her as well she is losing her sister! Even more her twin, the person who has literally been by her side her whole life just because they look alike! Could you imagine your future nieces/nephews telling you not to come to your brother/sisters funeral even though you had a good relationship with them? I would be infuriated and Would not be surprised if your aunt has a very difficult time forgiving you if she forgave you at all.
Sorry for your loss. I understand it is really painful for you but what about your aunt? She lost her twin sister and best friend (most twins are super close). More importantly what do you think your late mother would say? How would she feel if she was banned from her sisters funeral? Massive YTA. Get over yourselves
YTA. Your mother was important to more than just you and your siblings. I understand you're grieving and probably not thinking clearly, but it is unbelievably cruel to tell you aunt that she can't come to her sister's funeral. And what about your other aunts and uncles and grandparents that want her there for support?
Yeah, and I also think that it's unlikely that people wouldn't immediately know she was the sister. Identical twins rarely look exactly the same, especially with age, different hair styles, hair colouring, clothing styles. People familiar to the family will not be knocked off at all by her presence, they're be more confused by her absence.
YTA. I'm sorry for your loss, but it's incredibly selfish of to think you can uninvite a close family member from a funeral for such an arbitrary reason. Your aunt is grieving for her sister, and you must have hurt her very deeply.
If you don't see someone that looks like you mom are you going to magically stop grieving? Is nothing else going to remind you of your mom all day? The only thing this will achieve is a lifelong regret for your aunt that she wasn't able to attend her sister's funeral. I truly hope it isn't too late for you to make amends, and ask her to attend.
YTA the only reason you don't want your aunt at the funeral is because is she your mother's twin. This is a bizarre reason that makes no sense to me. Perhaps you have just gone a little mad with grief, it affects people in different and strange ways.
I am sorry for your loss, but YTA. I'm a twin myself and would be absolutely devastated not being able to attend my own sister's funeral. You need to remember that this other person knew your mother better than anyone. And for you to deny her the right to say goodbye is heartbreaking. You need to set aside your own personal feelings because it's not just you who lost someone. Your mother's sister lost her other half.
YTA that's her twin. Probably the closest person to her in the world. She's supposed to skip the funeral because of her face? Who do you think you are? This is beyond cruel.She's a human being, not your mom's ghost. You are old enough to register them as different people.I get it, when my mom died I was an irrational wreck, but this is too weird and unfair.
Can you imagine how she will be feeling seeing her twin sisters face everytime she looks in the mirror for the rest of her life and you can't manage it for an afternoon. YTA wow. I'm so sorry you have lost your mother, the pain must be unbearable, but you aren't the only ones who loved her. 2ff7e9595c
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